Clueless About Love

A crush, like, love; are all confusing in the teenager years leading up to adulthood. Trying to distinguish between all three is incredibly difficult and honestly exhausting. All of the questions like "Am I cute enough?, Did they actually look at me?, Will we be together forever?". Some teenagers do think these exact questions, others think of questions that are similar. The key to help figuring it all out is a core friend group of course. Well sort of since they are in the same boat as everyone else. But figuring it all out is a part of discovering oneself and growing up.

The classic movie Clueless starring Brittany Murphy, Alicia Silverstone, and Paul Rudd. (Not going to mention another somewhat famous actress because I generally don't agree with her opinions at all. You know who). A timeless classic about a rich, privileged girl feeling the need to "help"everyone around her. Whether it be a makeover or being a match maker Cher (Alicia Silverstone) is always trying to help others. Cher is hopelessly clueless when it comes to understanding love and generally the world around her. She does have redeeming qualities and a huge heart. Her huge heart can be seen in the way that she loves and cares for her friends. The first lesson Clueless gives is that your inner friendship circle is something to cherish. Having those people to tell every secret, share every heartbreak, and people you can just sit around and laugh with. These are going to be some of the most important people in your life.

Another great lesson that Clueless provides is that you may find love where you least expect it. It can pop out of anywhere and keeping an open mind is super important. Finding that person that challenges you, accepts your personality, and makes you happy to be around is possibly the right person for you. Allowing yourself to look past your ideal "perfect person" and allow yourself to just fall makes you realize how closed off you've really been. While I'm not saying that you should be scouting out your ex-stepbrother, keeping an open mind to people and to the world will lead to such greater things. 

All in all Clueless is a pretty great movie. It's funny, has lovable characters, and everyone ends up routing for love. Yes it has its flaws like all romantic comedies do but this one really does have a sweet portrayal of romance. Remember to always stop for stop signs, be confident in your fashion choices, and keep an open mind for love.